I know the saying goes, "you always hurt the one you love".
It's really not fair. It's really not right.
I know, I've done it myself. Maybe it's because of selfishness. Maybe not. Maybe when we become defensive, that's when we hurt them the most.
I don't like to hurt and I certainly don't like to hurt anyone. My intent is not to hurt. I can't say never because, it will happen.
I was hurting last night. Because of something I saw that I shouldn't have seen. The person didn't seem to think it was any kind of big deal. No matter the disrespect that was shown to me. To me, as a woman and as a wife, I was disrespected. It hurt. No, I wasn't angry. I was disappointed. I felt the hurt and I felt disrespected. That is different than angry. Or mad.
I know sometimes in life these things will happen. But it hurts nonetheless.
There are times I wish a person would think before they do or say something that might hurt another. This goes for me too.
Yes, I did receive a heartfelt apology today. An apology that was most accepted. Because this loved one realized that how I was hurt was not worth it to cause me the hurt I felt.
And, my heart unhurt.
Til Later All!
BlueEyedWonder
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